I once read that in any good marriage, one partner is the gardener and the other is the garden. We take it in turns to be either. -Meryl Streep.
You can't love a crowd the same way you can love a person. And a crowd can't love you the way a single person can love you. Intimacy doesn't scale. Not really. Intimacy is a one-on-one phenomenon. -Hugh Macleod.