Any decision made in haste will have a negative effect on somebody near to you. A decision made after careful thinking will affect someone near you only in a positive way. Always think carefully before acting.
You can't love a crowd the same way you can love a person. And a crowd can't love you the way a single person can love you. Intimacy doesn't scale. Not really. Intimacy is a one-on-one phenomenon. -Hugh Macleod.